Write To Me, I Want
To Hear From You
You can easily use this questionnaire to analyze any primary,
sexual relationship. If you want to use it to analyze a non-sexual relationship
(relative, friend, boss, etc.) click here for more information: Non-Sexual
WHAT YOU WILL LEARN
WHO GETS THE MOST OF WHAT THEY WANT from the relationship.
- The GREATEST STRENGTH of the relationship, and HOW TO CAPITALIZE ON
- The GREATEST WEAKNESS of the relationship, and HOW TO MINIMIZE IT.
- The MOMENT OF GREATEST STRESS, and WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT.
- The BEST METHOD FOR SOLVING PROBLEMS.
THIS ISN'T COSMOPOLITAN MAGAZINE!
Answering the 10 questions on the next page will be easy,
but take your time in answering them to avoid misleading results. Answer
each question thoughtfully.
This analysis will help you to examine the ten most important traits in
a primarily good relationship to determine the degree to which each trait
is present or absent. It is designed for relationships in which there
is no physical abuse, no sexual abuse, and very little if any emotional
abuse. If you know you are in an abusive relationship, some of the advice
you will read here will not apply to you! (Bottom line: Abuse is wrong
and needs to be stopped - or escaped - regardless of all other factors.)
Ten questions are the heart of this questionnaire.
They ask about times when either you or your partner wants something.
(One question asks about when you want something, another question asks
about when the other person wants the same thing, etc.) Pay very close
attention to who is doing the "wanting" in each question. (You
have to do a little "guessing" when answering about the other
person, of course - but we all have to do a lot of that in real life too!)
ANSWER EACH QUESTION WITH A NUMBER FROM 0 TO 100.
USE A DIFFERENT NUMBER FOR EACH ANSWER. (No duplicate
PICK A SPECIFIC TIME PERIOD FOR ALL THE QUESTIONS.
- You can choose any time period you like: "since we met," "the
last month," "the last ten years," even "the first
three years we were together." But you must be thinking about
the SAME time period on every question.
OK, You Are Ready!
BEGIN THE RELATIONSHIP ANALYSIS
Please Tell Your Friends About
Enjoy Your Changes!
Everything here is designed to help you do just that!
Write To Me, I Want To Hear From You!
Tony Schirtzinger, Therapist (Milwaukee)
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