Q: Many men seem to date to prove something. They don’t personalize the woman they are with, but instead treat us all as if we are inanimate “things.” Why are men like that?
A: Many men and women do everything in their life as if they are “proving” something to others, and to themselves. And many such people treat all others as if they are just satellites provided by the gods just to circle them and prove their worth to the world. I’m sorry you’ve met so many men who are like this. I hope you’ll notice all the women who are like this too, but mainly I hope you’ll gravitate away from such people and towards the rest of the people in the world who want closeness and love from REAL partners.