Relationship Analysis Questionnaire

PAY ¬†CLOSE ATTENTION TO WHO IS DOING THE “WANTING.”

EVERY ANSWER MUST BE DIFFERENT.

PICK A SPECIFIC TIME PERIOD.

USE THE EXAMPLES ONLY AS A GUIDE.

LET THE NUMBER YOU CHOOSE REFLECT THESE MEANINGS:

From 00 to 05 = “It doesn’t happen” or “Not at all.”
From 06 to 15 = “It goes terribly.”
From 16 to 25 = “It goes very badly.”
From 26 to 35 = “It goes badly.”
From 36 to 45 = “It goes a little badly.”
From 46 to 55 = “It doesn’t go well or badly. It’s in the middle.”
From 56 to 65 = “It goes a little well.”
From 66 to 75 = “It goes well.”
From 76 to 85 = “It goes very well.”
From 86 to 95 = “It goes extremely well.”
From 96 to 100 = “It goes fantastically!”

The Questions

In this situation… How does it go?
1. When you want to take care of the other person

Examples

  • “Can I get you a soda?”
  • “Would you like a back rub?”
  • “You look tired, let me put the kids to bed.”

Enter a number between 0-100.
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2. When the other person wants to take care of you

Examples:

  • “Can I get you a soda?”
  • “Would you like a back rub?”
  • “You look tired, let me put the kids to bed.”

Enter a number between 0-100.
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3. When you want to be taken care of by the other person

Examples:

  • “Can I get you a soda?”
  • “Would you like a back rub?”
  • “You look tired, let me put the kids to bed.”

Enter a number between 0-100.
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4. When the other person wants to be taken care of by you
Examples:

  • “Can I get you a soda?”
  • “Would you like a back rub?”
  • “You look tired, let me put the kids to bed.”

Enter a number between 0-100.
See chart

5. When you want to share opinions with the other person

Examples:

  • “We deserve a vacation.”
  • “Children should be seen and not heard.”
  • “Our religion is best.”

Enter a number between 0-100.
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6. When the other person wants to share opinions with you
Examples:

  • “We deserve a vacation.”
  • “Children should be seen and not heard.”
  • “Our religion is best.”

Enter a number between 0-100.
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7. When you want to think clearly with the other person

Examples:

  • “How can we get there from here?”
  • “Let’s figure it out together.”
  • “Will you explain to me how you did that?”

Enter a number between 0-100.
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8. When the other person wants to think clearly with you
Examples:

  • “How can we get there from here?”
  • “Let’s figure it out together.”
  • “Will you explain to me how you did that?”

Enter a number between 0-100.
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9. When you want to have sex with the other person

Examples:

  • Playfully teasing and inviting.
  • Sharing fantasies.
  • Having sex, making love, etc.

Enter a number between 0-100.
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10. When the other person wants to have sex with you

Examples:

  • Playfully teasing and inviting.
  • Sharing fantasies.
  • Having sex, making love, etc.

Enter a number between 0-100.
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