Q: My boyfriend wants to explain everything constantly. I have learned how to say “ah hum” and look interested while he is talking. He doesn’t hear what I say and seems to be a black-hole for attention. What’s this all about? Giving him the...
Q:I lost all rational communication with my parents. Mother is “very angry,” father “disappeared”. She’s yelling at me through the phone telling she hates me, my wife etc. I know there’s no way back. Don’t want to call them...
Q: I am 51 year old married female. When I’m angry I talk out loud to myself and have a conversation with the person I’m angry with. Then I imagine that he understands me. This gets embarrassing. Why do I do this. I am a highly sensitive person A: I...
Q: Your topic, “Shame- What you can do about it,” started me down a different path in life – one that no longer includes thoughts of suicide. The site in general gave me many mental building blocks that, aside from helping in the interim, made...
Q: Tony, My brother just sent me the link to your web site I am excited (if that’s the correct word) about your strategies for healing from sexual abuse that I read so far: daily self -care, psychotherapy, regular source of support, and body work. You are right...