Q: My husbands actions come under category Avoidant/antisocial Personality Disorder. Is this self-cured? He gets irritated by talking to some people and avoids them altogether as personal rivalry without reasoning and no forgiveness. He insults guests who come home by ignoring them and not talking to them. Avoids social gatherings.
A: No, most people don’t change this on their own – and since most people with these traits refuse therapy, they may be this way all their lives. I suggest you tell him he must get into therapy if his behavior is intolerable for you.